kengkay:
ai
bakit hindi pagbawalan
ang kamanyakan
kung mga batang inosente
ang pakikialaman
may paki ako
dahil nanay ako
bakla man o tomboy
walang karapatang
lurayin ng manyak na yan
kung ikaw walang paki
kawawa naman
ang mga inosenteng
nakapaligid sa yo
huwag sana
kitang masilip na pagala gala
kundi titirisin kitang
parang kuto
inggit ako
kung papano ka
nagkaron ng lakas ng loob
na ipagtanggol
ang mga manyak na yan
tao ka ba o isang hayup
na katulad nila?

worried din ako para dun sa bata…malaking impact yun sa kanya e…sana magawan ng paraan to turn that traumatic event into something else para hindi nya dala dala hanggang paglaki nya…..

i’ve had my share of traumatic experiences (yes, me manyakis din!), and these experiences left a big impact on me because I was not the type na nagsasalita about it….kaya til now dala dala ko pa rin…

Kelangan mailabas whatever napi-feel nung bata…I’m no psychologist…but I feel that being able to express her frustrations and fears will be a very big help….kahit sa pagdrawing, painting, writing…..if she can’t talk, or anything basta makakapag-express sya.

This I learned. Never suppress what you feel. In my case, if ganun, I might just explode na lang bigla….
kengkay: hi tin, now you know people would also be there to listen to you tama ka, you need to express in whatever way you deem comfortable for you. that little girl stayed the whole day with us to play with my daughters yesterday, nothing extraordinary, they played make believe, staged a ballet recital for us, painted, watched tv, munched a lot, just like nothing happened. sabi nga nung hubby ko she might have kicked that experience out, pero we would never know di ba?